Go with the Flow

Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” Colossians 3:15

This past Tuesday as I was getting ready to sit down and write this week’s blog post, I received a phone notification from American Airlines that my flight scheduled to leave the following morning had been cancelled and I needed to rebook it. WHAT???

Since my husband travels so much for business, I called him in a panic. He calmly said, it happens all the time, what flights are available? By the time he got an agent on the phone it was slim pickings for any direct flights to Destin. He said if I could get it together, I could make the 4:56 pm flight that day.

So much for my relaxing afternoon writing my weekly blog. Fortunately, I had packed the prior day in case I needed to get anything on Tuesday. By this time is it 2:30 pm when I make the decision to get on that flight. I made a mad dash to get ready and finished packing my last minute items.

I’ll admit when I got the initial text about my flight being cancelled, I was pretty flustered. Thankfully, my husband was quickly able to walk me off that cliff. Once I got in the right mindset, I started thinking, everything happens for a reason. Maybe there is someone God wants me to meet or bless on this flight.

I had arranged for a neighbor to take me on Wednesday but she wasn’t. I was able to get a Lyft ride and made it in plenty of time for my flight. However shortly after we boarded our flight, a severe storm moved in so we had to deplane and wait it out. It was 7:30 before we taxied from the gate. So rather than arrive at 7 pm, I arrived at my friend’s condo at 10:30, but I got there!

I didn’t meet anyone on that airplane or give away a knit gift, but I now realize, God was using this experience for me to let the peace of Christ rule my heart and be thankful in my circumstances. I was thanking God for delaying the flight. We could have been flying through some pretty treacherous storms had we taken off 15 minutes earlier.

Because of the delay, I had extra time to pray for the pilots and crew, which I hadn’t done at the 4:30 boarding. When you pray for others and thank God in the middle of unwelcome circumstances, you will find peace…at least I did.

No matter how prepared I am for a trip, I inevitably forget something. You would think for a beach destination, shorts would be the first thing I would pack. Unfortunately that mental note I made to myself to put some in my suitcase never happened. However, once I made that conscious effort to not let the little things stress me out, it wasn’t a big deal. I mean, who doesn’t need a good excuse to buy some new clothes?

Colossians 3:15 has been my mantra for this trip. Yes, we had some rainy days on this girls trip, but I was thankful for the precious time three of us were able to giggle and have some much needed “girl time.” Going with the flow is a much better way to live. Some things are out of our control and stressing out over it will only steal my peace.

Father God,

Forgive me when I let circumstances rule my heart. Thank You for turning my thoughts and mind to You. Only You can replace stress with peace. When I let Your peace rule in my heart, life is so much more fruitful . It shifts my attitude to one of thankfulness. Having a thankful heart is a better way to live. It overflows to those around me. I lift those up to You who are struggling with finding the blessings in the middle of unwelcome changes in their life. May they feel Your presence. I pray these things in the name of Jesus Christ. Amen

May Verse

“Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.” – Colossians 3:15

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Staying Strong

“But you, take courage! Do not let your hands be weak, for your work shall be rewarded.”—2 Chronicles 15:7 (ESV)

I love how God uses a scripture to speak to me when I need it the most. When the English Standard Version of 2 Chronicles 15:7 was in my morning devotion, it was exactly what I needed to read before my doctor appointment on Tuesday.

Two things I enjoy doing the most are working out and knitting. They help calm my restless soul as well as keep my mind and body strong.

Last February I had surgery on my right middle finger. It was 5 months before I had full range of motion. Unfortunately, now my ring finger on that same hand now has trigger finger. I really don’t want to have another surgery, so I asked what I needed to do to avoid it.

The doctor told me I should avoid any repetitive motions. Well, that would be working out and knitting! This is not what I wanted to hear. I have osteopenia, so I need to do some sort of weight bearing exercise. I have been doing a group training class for 4 years that I love as well as the community we have with each other. I have never been a part of a workout group like this where we pray for each like we do.

However, with my husband retiring sometime this year, we have been talking about going to another gym. It has more class options that would be gentler on my hands. But for now, I will really have to modify what I am doing in the gym and with my knitting.

There is another knitting method which was suggested to me called Portuguese knitting. It would probably help with my trigger finger. It is supposed to lessen the strain on your fingers and hands with minimal hand movement, so I am going to give it a go.

God knows my passion for knitting, so I felt as if he was telling me to not lose heart with my weakened hands by giving me that scripture. The Good News Translation reads: “But you must be strong and not be discouraged. The work that you do will be rewarded."

In the big scheme of things, this is a little hiccup. As much as I love to knit, my worth isn’t in my craft, it is as a daughter of the King who has plans for my future. I trust Him with whatever His will is for me. A thankful and trusting attitude shifts my eyes to see things through God’s eyes.

Father God.

Forgive me when my faith wavers and I doubt Your faithfulness. Your Word tells me my work will be rewarded when I stay strong and don’t get discouraged when life isn’t happening as I would like. I ask for strength and healing in my hands to continue my knitting ministry. You know the bigger picture. I trust You to use me exactly where I am today to glorify You and share the love of Jesus with those who don’t know Him. I pray these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

April Verse
“The LORD is near to everyone who prays to him, to every faithful person who prays to him.”—Psalm 145:18 (GW)

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Trust in all Times

“Trust in him at all times, you people; pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge.—Psalm 62:8

I’ll be honest; this past week I haven’t been good about trusting God in all times. I have no problem pouring out my heart to Him, but letting it go and trusting God with the outcome has been more of a challenge for me.

My head tells me to God is omniscient. His plans and purposes are beyond my own human understanding. I know this, but I have been letting my emotions fuel my actions.

My mom’s move to memory care near my brother all fell in place. I was so at peace with her move knowing the background of some of the key people. However, the facility was recently bought out so now there are some major staffing changes as well as staff shortages in the memory care area.

Up until March, my brother also had a job where he was able to check on her every morning around breakfast. He unexpectedly had a career change which has him on the road traveling so he is unable to make a daily appearance. I feel as if the staff isn’t as attentive with my mother now since they know he won’t be checking on her in person daily.

My most recent visit with my mother was quite unsettling. She was still asleep in bed at my early afternoon arrival. They told me she hadn’t slept well and wanted to let her sleep.

Had they checked on her, they would have seen her beet red face. I felt her forehead and it was hot. I had them take her temperature. It was 102. I made sure they gave her medicine for it as well as fluids.

And…her room reeked of urine. Dirty laundry overflowing in both her hampers as well as dirty sheets thrown on a chair. Thankfully my mother has no sense of smell, but it hurts my heart to know she is living in such disarray, especially with her personal appearance. She would be mortified.

I stroked her arm and told her, mom, you know it is okay if you want to go be with Jesus now. I know you wouldn’t want to be living this way. She didn’t know who I was either. One of the resident’s wives that is there every day visiting her husband, said to her, do you know who this pretty young lady is? Her response was, no, I don’t know her. I said, that’s okay. I’m your daughter, Lisa.

The following morning, one of the outside aides that has been visiting her told me, They are not caring for her like they should. The reality is, it isn’t just my mother. There are other residents being treated the same way She also said to me, if it was my mother or grandmother, I wouldn’t want them living here. I told her, it wasn’t that easy because any kind of move is going to make her disease progress.

Of course, that was when my emotions went into high gear. After a few days, I was making phone calls about moving her back here. I was having some sleepless nights trying to figure out what I needed to do. Let me tell you, was I convicted when I woke up after one of those nights and read Psalm 62:8.

Before I started my morning quiet time, I said, Lord, let the Holy Spirit speak to me through Your Word. Well, that is exactly what He did! I felt as if God was telling me, Lisa, you are having no problem crying and pouring out your heart to me, but you aren’t trusting me. I know the bigger picture. Stop trying to control this.

Shortly after that, I spoke with her hospice nurse after she visited my mother. She recommended we hire a private caregiver for a few hours a day until the new management makes some changes. That does sound like a better plan that having to get hospice to make a 3–4-hour drive transfer setting her up somewhere closer to me.

I did put out my feelers for a few places in my area, so we have a back-up plan. I forgot to mention, we also got a letter from her facility preparing us that they may no longer be able to meet her care needs due to her needing so much assistance now. The next level of care for her is skilled nursing.

This has all been a lot to process, but thankfully, I have two brothers and their wives who are also part of this decision making, so it isn’t all on me. What sustains me is knowing one day my mom will be at home with Jesus and no longer in pain and suffering.

 Father God,

Forgive me when I let my emotions guide my actions rather than trust You with the outcome that You already know. I may not understand it, but I know You have a plan and purpose in all of this. Thank You that I don’t have to carry this burden alone. Thank You for blessing me with supportive family and friends. I pray these things in the name of Jesus. Amen.

April Verse
“The LORD is near to everyone who prays to him, to every faithful person who prays to him.”—Psalm 145:18 (GW)

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